Do you consider yourself as a dependent person? Or do you have a person that you think is too much dependent on you? Do you feel disturb when someone asked your companion?
When a person asks you for something like for an advice, then it means that she trusts you. It doesn’t show that she doesn’t know how to solve her own problem but she is just asking for your opinion on how you see that problem on your own side. She trust you that you can keep her questions as a secret and she trusts that you can share advice good for her.
When a person asks you for something like helping her in school stuffs, then it means that she believes in you. It doesn’t mean that she is being a parasite. She just asks your help, but not to do everything for her. As well all know being a parasite is a big no-no for us. It means that she believes in your knowledge and talent.
When a person asks you for something like accompanying her in an event, then it means that she wants you to be a part of it too. It is not just for her to have a companion but she also wants to share and make an unforgettable moment with a person who have a space on her hearts.
It’s not just being dependent.
It’s trusting in your wisdom, believing in your knowledge and most of all sharing her life.
Now it's up to you if you're going to shun your close friends or not.